Love Better in 2025

Feb 12 / Jennifer Hand

Love Better this Valentine's Day

Valentine’s Day is here, and while the everyone rushes to buy flowers, candy, and cards, let’s step back and ask: How can we love better? Not just today, but in 2025 and beyond? As Christians, our love reflects the selfless, sacrificial love of Christ. Whether you’re married, dating, single, or serving others, love isn’t just a Hallmark holiday—it’s a daily commitment to living out God’s love.

5 easy ways to love better in 2025

1. Love God First

Before you can love others well, you need to prioritize your love for God. Jesus tells us:

“Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. This is the first and greatest commandment.” – Matthew 22:37-38

When your heart is full of God’s love, you can pour that love into others. Choose at least one way you want to deepen your relationship with God and do it!

2. Love with Action, Not Just Words

It’s easy to say “I love you,” but true love is shown through action. 1 John 3:18 reminds us:

“Dear children, let us not love with words or speech but with actions and in truth.”

This Valentine’s Day, instead of just giving gifts, show love in tangible ways:

  • For spouses/significant others: Prioritize quality time, pray together, and serve one another daily.

  • For singles: Love your friends and community by being present and available.

  • For everyone: Find someone in need and meet their need—whether through encouragement, generosity, or simply listening.

3. Love with Forgiveness

Real love isn’t about keeping score; it’s about grace. Ephesians 4:32 says:

“Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.”

Carrying unforgiveness blocks you from loving fully. In 2025, let go of past hurts, extend grace, and experience the freedom that comes from loving like Jesus.

4. Love by Investing in Others

Jesus’ love wasn’t passive—it was intentional. He invested in His disciples, teaching and walking with them. This year, be intentional about mentoring, discipling, and building others up in faith. If you want to grow in loving others well, consider joining our What is Love? course at Advance the Faith Academy. It’s designed to help you develop a Christ-centered love that impacts relationships, communities, and the world.

5. Love Without Fear

So many people hesitate to love fully because of fear—fear of rejection, fear of failure, fear of vulnerability. But Scripture reminds us:

“There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear.” – 1 John 4:18

Loving well means trusting God with your heart and relationships. Step into 2025 with a love that’s bold, fearless, and Christ-centered.

Make Love a Lifestyle, Not Just a Holiday!

Loving like Jesus looks different than what you see in movies or hear in songs. It starts with taking intentional steps to "Love God & Love Others". This Valentine's Day and throughout 2025, let's commit to loving deeper with biblical view of love. If you are ready to learn practical ways to strengthen your relationship with God and others, check out our What is Love? course here

Meet the blogger

Jennifer Hand

Jennifer is the co-founder of Advance the Faith and the Advance the Faith Academy. She has over 15 years mentoring and coaching women of all ages. She is especially passionate about serving youth as they age out of foster care and discipling young adults. Jenn is currently pursuing her Masters of Counseling Psychology at Moody Theological Seminary. In her free time she loves cooking, reading and being outdoors. 
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